THE THING.
A focused 1:1 session with Mel Leslie
For when there’s one thing you keep going round in circles with, and you can’t quite work out what’s really going on underneath it.
Maybe your thing is…
→ A decision you keep going backwards and forwards on.→ Something you want, but keep finding very sensible reasons not to do.→ A boundary you know you need, but can't seem to hold.→ Something you feel guilty for wanting in the first place.→ A situation you keep reacting to in the same way, even though part of you knows it's not working.
Or maybe you can't even put your finger on exactly what it is.
You just know something doesn't feel right anymore
You don't need to have worked it all out before you come. That's rather the point.
So what happens when you bring me The Thing?
We take one thing. The decision, tension, pattern or situation that's taking up far more headspace than you'd like, and we slow it down.
- Not to endlessly analyse it.- Not so I can tell you what you should do.- And definitely not to hand you another five-step framework to squeeze yourself into.
We get curious about what's really going on underneath.
What you've been assuming? What you've been accommodating?What's yours, and what might not be.
And perhaps most importantly:
What do YOU actually want, and are you still part of the decision you’re making?
What you leave with
Not a perfect life plan.→ Clarity about what's really sitting underneath "The Thing".→ A different way of seeing what you've been stuck inside.→ And a next step that feels like yours, not another thing you think you should be doing.
Why this works?
I work with women whose lives include real responsibility for somebody they love, but who still want their own wants, choices and possibilities to have a place in that life too.I know how easy it is to get bloody brilliant at adapting, accommodating and making everything work… while slowly losing sight of what you actually want.My work helps you tell the difference between what genuinely needs to be accommodated and what you might have got used to accommodating automatically, where guilt, fear, expectation or old patterns might be making the decision for you.
The practical bit
A private 1:1 session with me, focused entirely on your Thing.We’ll have up to 90 minutes together, giving us enough space to explore what’s really going on without rushing towards an answer.We’ll meet online, so you can join from wherever you are.Investment: £250
Got a Thing?
If you're ready to stop going round in circles with it, bring it